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Previous poll review
In the Neighbours poll, 56.8% of respondents know their neighbours well enough to nod and wave, 52.3% have each other's phone numbers/email and chat in passing, and 22.7% socialise/lend things. In ticky-boxes, cat photos came second to hugs, 59.1% to 70.5%. Thank you for your votes! ♥

Reading
Listening to Barrayar (Bujold's Vorkosigan saga) with Andrew. Other than that, just a little bit of fanfic.

Kdramas
I'm cooling on Behind the Bar because a lot of the cases are deeply unpleasant.

For example:

the one that had me noping out is a doctor being accused of murder because a man she unsuccessfully treated on a plane is a convicted paedophile. (I ffwed the scene, so I don't know if the failure was deliberate.) The doctor is suspected because she treated the man's young victim in the past, and also refused to treat him then.

I restarted Strongest Delivery Man for Kim Sun-ho, the second male lead, but I don't much care about the main pairing (iirc, there's potential slashiness between the two guys, but it takes a while to get there). I started the first episode of Our Universe, but backbuttoned when the toddler appeared. (Sometimes I can kidfic, but often I cannot.) Now, I don't know.

Other TV
We finished Wonder Man. I liked it a lot -- imperfect characters, and the redemptive power of friendship, woohoo! (I didn't end up slashing the leads; Ben Kingsley is kind of terrible. But I could be persuaded.)

Still going on The Pitt. Finished our rewatch of We Are Lady Parts season 2. ♥ ♥ ♥

And a couple of movies: The Friend in which Naomi Watts inherits a great dane from a friend; full of humanity and grief. And Dancing the Invisible, a documentary about Jill Bilcock, an Australian film editor who's worked with Baz Luhrmann and many others; fascinating, full of close creative friendships and competence porn.

Audio entertainment
Relistened to John Finnemore's Souvenir Programme season 9, which is a series of interlinked sketched about multiple generations of a family. Being me, I still want OT3 fic for the most uptight/least likeable character, his wife and their good friend, lol.

Also, Writing Excuses, a Death of 1000 Cuts writing ramble, and one episode of You Can Learn Chinese. (Taking a mental health break from the politics.)

Writing/making things
I posted my first fic of the year, a belated

fandomtrees treat for

teaotter:

Title: Honey Tea (1761 words) [General Audiences]
Fandom: 조립식 가족 | Family by Choice (South Korea TV)
Relationships: Kim Daewook/Yoon Jeongjae
Characters: Kim Daewook, Yoon Jeongjae, Kim Sanha
Additional Tags: Empty Nest Syndrome (sort of), Medicating with Alcohol, Insecurity, Define the Relationship talks, Friends to Lovers, Co-parents to lovers, Non-Linear Narrative, Set during episode 9
Summary:
If ever there was a night for obliterating himself, it was tonight. The facts of Sanha leaving and the trials he’d face in Seoul were too depressing to contemplate, so Daewook let himself brood over smaller, more selfish miseries. His apartment was empty. Haejoon had left, too. Everything was changing, the family disbanded, and where did that leave Daewook? Left behind again. Thrown aside.

I'm currently noodling one of the things I started for Yuletide, but I'm not quite sure where it's going.

I've attempted two Lady Parts drawings, neither of which came out right. But I have smudgers/blenders now (much thanks to those who suggested them!), so I'm messing around with shading more, which is fun.

Life/health/mental state things
Yesterday I wrote, drew Saira, drove, made a huge batch of dumplings, and stayed up too late doing dishes. Today, to no one's surprise, my arms are grumbly. So after this, we're going for a walk in the local bird sanctuary.

Some life-admin to-dos are looming over me. Avoid, avoid, avoid.

Food
I'm pretty sure the part of my scribbled down Korean pork dumpling recipe that says 20 ginger is actually supposed to be 2T ginger. If I'm right, I used way too much.

Good things
Andrew and Halle. Smudgers! Learning. Dreamwidth. Fandom. TV and audiobooks. Sunshine and going for walks. WIPs. Early night tonight. The dishes are done -- thanks, past me!

Poll #34203 Oxford comma

Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 52

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On the subject of the Oxford/serial comma

View Answers

I have firm opinions
25 (48.1%)

I have moderate preferences
19 (36.5%)

I'm officially neutral
2 (3.8%)

I don't know what it is
0 (0.0%)

always use it!
21 (40.4%)

only use it when necessary!
8 (15.4%)

never use it!
0 (0.0%)

each to their own
9 (17.3%)

I still don't know what it is
0 (0.0%)

other
2 (3.8%)

ticky-box of buying a random bargain bin product, imprinting on it, and spending the rest of your life trying to track down replacements
23 (44.2%)

ticky-box full of walnuts
18 (34.6%)

ticky-box full of squirrels with stopwatches
16 (30.8%)

ticky-box full of thirteen ways of putting on your shoes
8 (15.4%)

ticky-box full of hugs
35 (67.3%)

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Argh, I need to get back into regular posting, because otherwise these things get monstrously long! I might start breaking the sections up into separate posts. After this one.

Previous poll review
In the Om poll, 7.8% of respondents meditate regularly, 23.5% meditate from time to time, and 41.2% said no. In ticky-boxes, "skipping across treetops and dancing through the clouds" came second to hugs, 45.1% to 74.5%. "Feeling kind of zonky" came third with 41.2%. Thank you for your votes!

Reading
More Bujold -- Andrew and I finished Shards of Honor (incl the scene with my DNWs; thankfully there's just the one) and have just started Barrayar. Really enjoying her sense of humour.

In the Penric novellas (also Bujold), I'm listening in the order they're served up to me, so I've read Penric's Demon, Penric and the Shaman, Penric's Fox, and I've now stalled out in the middle of Masquerade in Lodi. Idk why, it just hasn't grabbed me.

I have the next Wimsy book open on my Kindle, but have not given any time to reading lately.

Kdramas
Some more Family by Choice with Pru. I love this show so much.

I finished Can This Love Be Translated? which was quirky and slightly disconcerting all the way up to the last episode. And then the last episode made me go, loudly and repeatedly, "What? WHAAAT?!" Hong sisters, I love you, but I question those last-minute narrative choices.

Long ramble; spoilers for the whole show

The setup is that an up-and-coming actress stars in a low-budget horror movie where she plays a killer zombie. On the last day of shooting, she has an accident and winds up in a coma for six months (no post-coma PT required). During that time, she becomes an international sensation, so she wakes up a star. For most of the drama, while shooting a reality travel show, she's haunted by her character from the horror movie, or possibly she has multiple personality? It becomes more MP-ish as it progresses, and ends up kind of creepy-sweet. But there's a whole childhood backstory about her mother poisoning her father, trying to poison the main character as well, and then taking the poison herself. After that, the main character had to stay with emotionally distant relatives, so many resultant issues. Given the horror elements and backstory, I wondered if the reveal was going to be that the kid had accidentally killed her parents instead, or something like that? (And how would you even handle that in a romance?) Instead, the reveal was... her parents both survived the murder-suicide incident due to paramedic intervention, but left the country separately, neither wanting to see their daughter again, and NO ONE HAD EVER TOLD HER. And the haunting/MP alter was actually her mother (or based on her mother)???? So in the final episode, the main character leaves the country to find her parents, off-screen, and then the main couple reunite for the romantic ending. It was just... what a weird way to resolve the backstory?? Surely the fact that both of her (messed-up) parents chose to abandon her opens up more cans of worms, rather than resolving anything? But that's not even touched on! And to suddenly tell us that the person she's been for half the show (who flirts with her love interest and goes around randomly kissing people) is ?based on? her murderous mother??? Whaaaat??

Anyway, I enjoyed the translation side of things a lot and the leads and romance generally.

Am now watching Beyond the Bar on my brother's rec (not that brother; the other one), though he then emailed to say he didn't like the ending. It's pretty brutal in places, and

spoiler

the male lead's trauma is that he wants to be a dad, and his ex-wife had an abortion while they were together.

Plus, if they're trying for an office romance, that seems wildly ill-advised. But I'm enjoying it so far, so I'll see.

Other TV
Watched two and a half seasons of Barry before all the murder/moral complicity got to me.
We tried Bones and noped out halfway through episode 1. Also, half of Better Man, the Robbie Williams biopic where he's an ape.

We're currently watching:
- The Pitt -- waiting impatiently for the next episode. (No spoilers, please!!)
- SurrealEstate -- Canadian, seems fun and not quite as episodic as I expected.
- Wonder Man -- MCU, fantastic cast, nicely paced, fun, very curious to see how they're going to wrap it up, because we only have two short episodes to go and they have a LOT of balls in the air.
- Hacks -- about female stand-up comics; we've only watched the pilot, but I plan to continue a bit longer before we decide one way or the other.
- We Are Lady Parts season 2 -- a timeline cleanse/refresh. (I love them all so much!! Why are they so hard to draw? ;-p)

My sister and I just finished season 3 of Fringe. I was having trouble staying away for the last two episodes, but that might not have been the show's fault.

Also Andrew and I saw Avatar: Fire and Ash at the movies. (A bit too action-y for me; I preferred #2.)

Audio entertainment
- Writing Excuses
- The Shit No One Tells You About Writing (episode: The Job of a Disruption -- paraphase/jotted down quote: The job [of the disruption] isn't just to catch the protagonist off-guard. The job of the disruption is to then reveal layers of power dynamics. That could be a further deepening of existing power dynamics in a way that reveals complications, or it could be a power shift (lose or gain power). Looking for threat, temptation, tension, curiosity.)

- multiple listens of the Good Manager podfic

celli made me for

fandomtrees (listed here because I loaded it into Pocket Casts)
- Keep It Steady (in-progress m/m high-school fake-dating audiodrama; relisten, some eps multiple times)

( US politics. )

- Cross Party Lines (NZ Politics)
- The Tongue Unbroken (episode: The Ocean That Unites Us)

Writing/making things
I have one

fandomtrees fic at beta (my beta for that fandom is super busy with off-line stuff). I've been working through the other one, and I'm a bit worried it's got all clogged up with feelings exposition, which is something that's been bugging me about my writing lately -- but I may just be hypervigilant about that, idk. I have a post for

fan_writers in the works. Art practice has ground to a halt for now. Everything is fine.

Life/health/mental state things
( Cut for length. )

Food
My parents accidentally bought a mini air fryer. The basket is 15.5cm in diameter, about big enough for a single cupcake. I offered it a home and have been using it for various things. A new favourite, courtesy of Youtube "air fryer hacks" videos, is leftover pizza, sandwiched together with more cheese in the middle, and reheated till it's crispy. A+

Link dump
Samsung caught faking zoom photos of the Moon (The Verge, a couple of years ago) | The Mayor of Ottawa declared Shane Hollander Day (what is happening?? Heated Rivalry has also shown up in our local newspaper's trivia quiz and in the NYT's Connections puzzle, lol) | Bruce Springsteen - Streets of Minneapolis (Youtube.)
(The rest are literally just tabs I'm closing that I want to be able to find again) How to break up with Google | Head South (NZ film I intend to try sometime) | Sacha Judd's website, What you love matters (articles page) | Spacious Acting (old skool acting blog) | NZ Respiratory illness dashboard.

Good things
Andrew. Modern medicine. Treats from the bakery. Having two houses. The cat. Thoughts about writing. Greeting cards. You all. Hugs!!

Poll #34182 Neighbours

Open to: Registered Users, detailed results viewable to: All, participants: 46

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Do you know your neighbours?

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we socialise / lend things
10 (21.7%)

we have each other's phone numbers/email and chat in passing
23 (50.0%)

well enough to nod or wave
25 (54.3%)

not really
10 (21.7%)

some of them
22 (47.8%)

they suck / we have issues / we're at war
3 (6.5%)

other
2 (4.3%)